The Alabama Parenting Questionnaire (APQ), developed by Paul J. Frick, is a widely used and well-validated 42-item measure designed to assess everyday parenting practices. Originally developed to understand the family contexts contributing to disruptive behaviors in youth, it has become a staple in both clinical and research settings for evaluating the dynamic between parent and child.
The instrument breaks down parenting into distinct, actionable dimensions: it captures adaptive practices like positive reinforcement and parental involvement, as well as problematic patterns such as inconsistent discipline, poor monitoring, and harsh or corporal punishment. By asking parents to report on the frequency of very concrete behaviors, the APQ moves beyond vague parenting styles to pinpoint exact interactions that can be leveraged or modified in therapy.
For mental health clinicians, this test provides a standardized baseline of the home environment. When working with families of children presenting with conduct problems, oppositional defiant disorder, or general behavioral dysregulation, such as chronic crying and complaining, the APQ offers a clear map of what is working and what might be inadvertently maintaining the child's difficulties, guiding the focus of parent training interventions.
Example result
Fictitious result, computed from a sample set of answers.
Self-report questionnaire for parents of children and adolescents (6-17 years) assessing five dimensions of parenting practices associated with externalizing behavior disorders and delinquency: parental involvement, positive parenting, poor monitoring/supervision, inconsistent discipline, and corporal punishment. Both a parent version and a parallel child/adolescent version are available. Used in clinical and research settings to characterize parenting practices, target parent training, and track progress throughout intervention.
Other disciplinary practices (informative items, not summed into the total score)
19/ 35
items34, 36, 37, 39, 40, 41, 42
19
735
Corporal punishment
11/ 15
Corporal punishment, assessing the frequency of physical discipline such as spanking or hitting.
items33, 35, 38
généralemixed · community sample · 6–12 years · Spain · n = 937 · 2026 · Fernández-Ortiz et al. (2026)
315
11
M = 4.3 ± 1.5
Positive parenting
16/ 30
positive parenting, defined as the use of positive reinforcement (praise and material rewards)
items2, 5, 13, 16, 18, 27
généralemixed · community sample · 6–12 years · Spain · n = 937 · 2026 · Fernández-Ortiz et al. (2026)
630
16
M = 25 ± 3.1
Poor monitoring/supervision
31/ 50
Poor monitoring and supervision, assessing the parent's lack of awareness regarding the child's whereabouts and activities.
items6, 10, 17, 19, 21, 24, 28, 29, 30, 32
généralemixed · community sample · 6–12 years · Spain · n = 937 · 2026 · Fernández-Ortiz et al. (2026)
1050
31
M = 15.7 ± 2.7
Parental involvement
30/ 50
Parental involvement, reflecting the extent to which the parent engages positively and spends time with the child.
items1, 4, 7, 9, 11, 14, 15, 20, 23, 26
généralemixed · community sample · 6–12 years · Spain · n = 937 · 2026 · Fernández-Ortiz et al. (2026)
1050
30
M = 39.3 ± 4.7
Inconsistent discipline
16/ 30
Inconsistent discipline, measuring how often parents fail to follow through with threatened punishments or change rules unpredictably.
items3, 8, 12, 22, 25, 31
généralemixed · community sample · 6–12 years · Spain · n = 937 · 2026 · Fernández-Ortiz et al. (2026)
630
16
M = 13.1 ± 3.5
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The APQ measures the frequency of specific parenting behaviors across several key dimensions known to influence child behavioral outcomes. The 42 items are grouped into five main subscales and an additional category of supplementary disciplinary practices.
Parental Involvement: The degree to which the parent participates in the child's life, including shared activities, homework help, open conversation, and active listening.
Positive Parenting: The frequency of adaptive reinforcement, such as using praise effectively, rewarding positive choices, and showing affection when the child behaves well.
Poor Monitoring/Supervision: The extent to which the parent is unaware of the child's whereabouts, friends, or activities, reflecting a lack of structural oversight and healthy boundaries.
Inconsistent Discipline: The tendency to issue empty threats, let the child negotiate out of consequences, or apply rules unpredictably based on the parent's mood.
Corporal Punishment: The use of physical force, such as spanking or hitting, as a disciplinary measure.
Other Discipline Practices: A descriptive set of items capturing additional methods like time-outs, removing privileges, or yelling.
This questionnaire is designed for parents or primary caregivers of school-aged children and adolescents.
When and why to use it
Clinicians typically use the APQ when working with families facing child behavioral challenges, or when parent management training is a core component of the treatment plan.
Intake and assessment: To establish a clear baseline of the family's disciplinary climate and interaction patterns.
Treatment planning: To identify specific parenting behaviors (e.g., high inconsistency, low positive reinforcement) that require targeted psychoeducation and skill-building in session, such as introducing a structured token reward system.
Monitoring progress: To track changes in parenting practices over the course of family therapy or parent training, ensuring that new skills and reinforcement strategies, like reward coupons, are generalizing to the home environment.
Differential support: To distinguish whether a child's externalizing behaviors are primarily driven by specific neurodevelopmental profiles requiring tailored ADHD parenting strategies, or are being maintained by gaps in parental supervision and discipline.
Using the APQ provides a validated, structured metric of parenting behavior that is far more granular than a general clinical interview, allowing for highly targeted and effective interventions.
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The following questions concern the way you, as a parent, interact with your child. For each statement, indicate how often this situation typically occurs in your family by choosing the response that best applies: Never, Almost Never, Sometimes, Often, Always. Please answer honestly; there are no right or wrong answers.
1. You have a friendly talk with your child.
Probes the frequency of unstructured, positive verbal interactions between parent and child.
Never
Almost never
Sometimes
Often
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2. You let your child know they've done a good job when they achieve something.
Assesses the parent's habit of providing immediate verbal recognition for the child's successes.
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Almost never
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3. You threaten to punish your child, but then you don't actually punish them.
Evaluates the tendency to use empty threats without actual disciplinary follow-through.
Never
Almost never
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Often
Always
4. You volunteer to help with special activities your child is in (sports, scouts, youth groups, church activities, etc.).
Explores the parent's willingness to dedicate personal time to support the child's extracurricular interests.
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Almost never
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Often
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5. You reward your child or give them something extra when they obey you or behave well.
Examines the use of concrete positive reinforcement to shape and maintain obedient behavior.
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Almost never
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6. Your child does not leave a note or let you know where they are going.
Assesses the child's autonomy and the parent's baseline expectations regarding communication of whereabouts.
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Almost never
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7. You play games or do other fun activities with your child.
Probes the frequency of shared recreational activities that build relational capital.
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8. Your child is able to talk you out of punishing them after they have done something wrong.
Evaluates the child's ability to negotiate out of consequences and the parent's susceptibility to such bargaining.
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Almost never
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9. You ask your child how their day at school was.
Looks at the parent's daily routine of inquiring about the child's academic and social life at school.
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10. Your child stays out at night later than they are supposed to be home.
Measures the enforcement of curfews and the child's compliance with established evening boundaries.
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Almost never
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11. You help your child with their homework.
Assesses the level of direct academic support the parent provides at home.
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Almost never
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Often
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12. You feel that getting your child to obey is more trouble than it's worth.
Explores parental burnout or a sense of futility regarding behavior management and compliance.
Never
Almost never
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Often
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13. You compliment your child when they do something well.
Examines the consistency of offering positive feedback for desired behaviors.
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Almost never
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14. You ask your child about their plans for the upcoming day.
Probes the parent's proactive engagement with the child's daily structure and intentions.
Never
Almost never
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Often
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15. You drive your child to a special activity.
Looks at the parent's logistical involvement in facilitating the child's activities.
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Almost never
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Often
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16. You praise your child when they behave well.
Assesses how reliably the parent acknowledges and reinforces good conduct.
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Almost never
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Often
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17. Your child has gone out with friends you do not know.
Evaluates the depth of the parent's social monitoring and awareness of the child's peer group.
Never
Almost never
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Often
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18. You hug or kiss your child when they have done something well.
Examines the use of physical affection as a form of positive reinforcement.
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Almost never
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Often
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19. Your child goes out without having a set time to be home.
Measures the strictness of evening boundaries and the presence of enforced curfews.
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Almost never
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Often
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20. You talk with your child about their friends.
Probes the parent's interest and involvement in the child's social relationships.
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Almost never
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Often
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21. Your child is out after dark without adult supervision.
Assesses potential gaps in safety and supervision during evening hours.
Never
Almost never
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Often
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22. You end a punishment earlier than you originally said you would (for example, you stop a grounding before it's supposed to be over).
Evaluates disciplinary inconsistency through the premature lifting of established consequences.
Never
Almost never
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Often
Always
23. Your child helps plan family activities.
Explores the degree to which the child is included in family decision-making and planning.
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Almost never
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Often
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24. You are so busy that you forget where your child is and what they are doing.
Examines how competing parental demands may compromise adequate supervision of the child.
Never
Almost never
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Often
Always
25. Your child is not punished when they have done something wrong.
Assesses the absence of reliable consequences for inappropriate behavior.
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Almost never
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26. You attend parent-teacher conferences or other meetings at your child's school.
Probes the parent's active engagement with the child's educational environment and school staff.
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Almost never
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Often
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27. You tell your child that you appreciate it when they help around the house.
Looks at the explicit communication of gratitude for the child's contributions to the household.
Never
Almost never
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Often
Always
28. You do not check to see that your child is home on time.
Evaluates the consistency of parental follow-up regarding the child's expected return times.
Never
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Often
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29. You do not tell your child where you are going.
Assesses reciprocal communication by measuring whether the parent models accountability regarding their own whereabouts.
Never
Almost never
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Often
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30. Your child comes home from school more than an hour late.
Measures significant lapses in time management or supervision regarding the child's commute from school.
Never
Almost never
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Often
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31. The punishment you give your child depends on your mood.
Explores emotional reactivity in parenting, where consequences are dictated by the parent's affective state rather than the child's behavior.
Never
Almost never
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Often
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32. Your child is at home without adult supervision.
Assesses the frequency of the child being left alone without adult oversight.
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Almost never
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33. You spank your child with your hand when they have done something wrong.
Probes the use of mild physical force as an immediate disciplinary response.
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Almost never
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Often
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34. You ignore your child when they misbehave.
Examines the use of planned ignoring or avoidance when confronted with child misbehavior.
Never
Almost never
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Often
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35. You slap your child when they have done something wrong.
Evaluates the escalation to striking the child as a consequence for wrongdoing.
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Almost never
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36. You take away privileges or money from your child as a punishment.
Looks at the utilization of negative punishment, such as restricting access to desired activities or resources.
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Almost never
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37. You send your child to their room as a punishment.
Assesses the reliance on spatial isolation as a method of behavioral correction.
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Almost never
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38. You hit your child with a belt, a switch, or some other object when they have done something wrong.
Probes the use of severe physical discipline involving objects.
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Almost never
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39. You yell or scream at your child when they have done something wrong.
Examines the parent's tendency to use hostile verbal escalation when correcting the child.
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40. You calmly explain to your child why their behavior was inappropriate when they misbehave.
Evaluates the capacity for regulated, instructional discipline through rational explanation.
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41. You use time-out (e.g., sending them to a corner or a chair) as a punishment.
Looks at the structured use of temporary removal from reinforcement as a behavioral intervention.
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Almost never
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42. You give your child extra chores as a punishment.
Assesses the use of restitution or added responsibilities as a form of positive punishment.